Right, and Still Paying for It

You may be right about what happened. Ask what the story is still costing you.

Some people have a finely tuned sense for unfairness. When the rules apply to some and not others, they notice, and they do not let it go. That detector is usually accurate. It is also expensive to run when it never switches off.

Over time, a story grows around what it found. One person becomes the explanation for everything. The story gives you clarity, maybe some allies, and the steady feeling of being right. It also takes energy, every day, long after the original event.

The question is not whether you were wronged. It is whether the way you are carrying it still serves you.

Find the one thing you can actually move. Put your energy there.

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