We must be willing to let go of the life we planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us.
Joseph Campbell
It's a common human desire to want to map out our lives, plotting each course with precision and expecting things to follow suit. It gives us a sense of control, a belief that we can steer our fate. But life, in its infinite wisdom, often has other plans. Plans that require us to adapt, to change, and, most importantly, to let go of our preconceived notions of what our lives 'should' look like.
This isn't about abandoning goals or lowering standards. Rather, it's about being open to the possibilities that unfold when we're not rigidly attached to a specific outcome. It's about the liberation that comes with flexibility and the opportunities that arise when we're willing to pivot.
In the professional realm, this could mean reassessing our career trajectory, embracing the unexpected project that comes our way, or even shifting industries altogether. It's recognizing that sometimes, the skills and passions we've honed can serve us in ways we hadn't imagined. And in doing so, we often find ourselves in roles and environments that are better suited to who we are becoming, not just who we once were.
Letting go of the life we planned can be daunting. It asks us to trust in the unknown, to have faith in ourselves and our ability to navigate uncharted territory. But it's in this space of uncertainty that growth thrives. It's where we learn the most about our resilience, our adaptability, and our true desires.
So, as we step into the unknown, let's do so with the understanding that the life waiting for us might just exceed our wildest dreams. It's out there, ready for the taking, if only we're willing to loosen our grip on the blueprints of yesterday and reach out with open hands to the possibilities of tomorrow.