INSIGHTS FOR GROWTH

A client said something that stopped me: “I think I’ve been afraid that if I stop being needed, I’ll stop mattering.” That’s the truth underneath everything this week. The dentist trap. The fixer identity. The rescue missions. The inability to build the bench. It’s not about delegation or time management. It’s about identity. Being the person who always has the answer is how a lot of leaders know they matter. But the leaders who matter most are the ones whose teams don’t n

You can’t develop your team while you’re on the mound throwing every pitch. The day there’s an obvious answer to who would run your team — that’s the day your cage door opens.

She spent every Friday afternoon rescuing her underperformers’ work. I told her the word wasn’t delegation. It was codependency. That hit different.

You know you’re doing work that belongs below your level. The question is how to actually stop. Four practical tools for leaders stuck at the wrong altitude.

Real delegation means letting someone struggle with something you could handle in fifteen minutes. That’s where their growth happens. And yours.