INSIGHTS FOR GROWTH

Discovery. We think questions lead to answers. And sometimes they do. But the best questions? They lead to better questions. In coaching, I call this “following the thread.” Someone brings me a problem about their team’s performance. I ask what they think is driving it. Their answer reveals a deeper question about trust. That question reveals one about their own leadership pattern. And that’s where the real work starts. The right question doesn’t close a door. It opens three

Curiosity. When someone says something that doesn’t make sense to us, we have a choice. We can judge: “That’s wrong.” “They don’t get it.” “How can they think that?” Or we can get curious: “Help me understand.” “What am I missing?” “Tell me more.” One of the things running an executive team taught me: the moment you stop being curious about why someone sees it differently, you stop getting useful information. Curiosity opens doors that judgment keeps closed. What if you appro

Legacy. We talk about legacy like it's something you declare at the end of a career. A final statement. A summary of accomplishments. But legacy isn't declared. It's built. Daily. In the small moments no one sees. In how you treat people when you're stressed. In whether you keep your commitments when no one's checking. In the conversations you have that will never make it into your bio. This month we've explored focus, self-awareness, showing up, and the long game. They all l

We overestimate what we can do in a day. We underestimate what we can do in a year. This is the compound effect. Small choices, made consistently, lead to massive change over time. But it's easy to miss because the progress is invisible day to day. One slightly better conversation doesn't feel significant. But a year of slightly better conversations transforms relationships. One moment of pause before reacting doesn't feel like growth. But hundreds of those moments change who

Sustainability. It's tempting to build something impressive. Something ambitious. Something that stretches you to your limits. But impressive doesn't matter if you can't maintain it. The best systems, habits, and goals are the ones you can sustain. Not for a week. Not for a quarter. For years. Build what you can maintain. The rest will take care of itself.

Patience. In a world that rewards speed, patience feels countercultural. Almost like giving up. But patience isn't passive. It's strategic. It's knowing that some things can't be rushed. That growth takes time. That the best outcomes often require playing a longer game than everyone else is willing to play. What are you building that requires patience?

Impact. This week we've explored presence, intentionality, commitment, and discipline. They all lead here: impact. Impact isn't about grand gestures or dramatic moments. It's what happens when you show up consistently. Day after day. Conversation after conversation. The leader who's fully present creates trust. The leader who acts with intention creates clarity. The leader who keeps commitments creates confidence. The leader who shows up with discipline creates results. Impac

The best leaders I know have coaches. Not because they're struggling. Not because they're broken. Because they're serious about growth. Think about it: every elite athlete has a coach. Not because they don't know how to play their sport — but because excellence requires an outside perspective. Someone who can see what they can't see. Someone who asks the questions they wouldn't ask themselves. Someone who holds them accountable to their own standards. Leadership is no diffe

Motivation gets you started. Discipline keeps you going. Discipline isn't about willpower or white-knuckling through every day. It's about showing up when you don't feel like it. Doing the work even when no one's watching. Keeping the promise you made to yourself. The unsexy truth: most growth happens in the moments when you'd rather not.

Commitment. It's easy to commit to things. It's harder to keep those commitments — especially the ones you make to yourself. We break promises to ourselves that we'd never break to others. We let ourselves off the hook in ways we'd never accept from our teams. But commitment is a promise you keep to yourself. And how you honor that promise shapes everything else. What's one commitment you've been avoiding?

Growth requires seeing what's uncomfortable. We want growth without discomfort. Progress without challenge. Change without letting go. But growth requires seeing what's uncomfortable. The patterns that aren't serving you. The habits you've outgrown. The feedback you've been avoiding. This week we've explored awareness, blind spots, feedback, and honesty. They all lead here: growth. Not growth that happens to you. Growth you choose. What's one uncomfortable truth you're re

Feedback shouldn't feel personal. But it does. Even when it's delivered thoughtfully. Even when you asked for it. Even when you know, intellectually, that it's meant to help. Something in you tightens. Your mind starts composing a defense before the other person finishes their sentence. You smile and nod while internally dismissing what you're hearing. This isn't weakness. It's biology.

Honesty with yourself is where growth begins. We talk about being honest with others. But the harder conversation is often the one with ourselves. Am I avoiding something I need to face? Am I telling myself a story that keeps me comfortable? Honesty with yourself is where growth begins. It's uncomfortable. It's also the only way forward.

It's easy to hear feedback as judgment. As criticism. As a verdict on who you are. But feedback isn't a verdict. It's a mirror. It shows you how you're landing — not who you are at your core. The best leaders I know don't just tolerate feedback. They seek it. Because they know: you can't see your own blind spots without a mirror. When was the last time you asked someone for honest feedback?

Every leader has a blind spot. The question isn't whether you have one. It's whether you know what yours is. Here's the uncomfortable truth: the higher you rise, the less honest feedback you receive. People filter what they tell you. They soften the edges. They tell you what they think you want to hear — or what feels safe to say. Meanwhile, your blind spots are shaping your reputation and your results. Every day. Whether you see them or not.

Blind spots. We all have them. The patterns we repeat without realizing. The impact we have without intending.

Awareness. This is where all meaningful change begins. Not motivation. Not strategy. Not effort. Awareness.

Trust. The first week of the year is almost done. Maybe you feel momentum. Maybe you feel behind already. Either way, here is what I want you to remember: trust the process. The results you want will not show up this week. Real change — real growth — takes time. It happens in the unseen moments. In the days when nothing seems to be working. In the quiet consistency that nobody applauds. Trust that the work matter Either way, here is what I want you to remember: trust t

From Insight to Action: The Step Most Leaders Skip. Clarity is powerful. But it's not enough.

Consistency. We overvalue intensity and undervalue consistency. The dramatic all-nighter gets celebrated. The quiet daily discipline goes unnoticed.