INSIGHTS FOR GROWTH

Honesty. We often treat honesty and kindness as competing values. As if we have to choose. But honesty without kindness is cruelty. It’s using truth as a weapon.

Understanding. This week we’ve explored listening, attention, curiosity, and silence. They all lead here: understanding.

We tend to associate leadership with talking. Setting direction. Giving speeches. Having answers. Filling the silence. But here’s a pattern I keep seeing: the leaders who talk the most in meetings usually have the least idea what their teams actually think.

Silence. We rush to fill it. It feels awkward. Uncomfortable. Like something’s missing. But in coaching, I’ve learned that the most important thing someone will tell you usually comes after the pause. Not during the conversation — after the silence you didn’t fill. Silence isn’t empty. It’s full of answers. What if you let the silence breathe?

Hearing is passive. It happens automatically. Listening is active. It's a choice. And most of us aren't doing it nearly as well as we think.

Listening. It sounds simple. But most of us aren't doing it. Most people listen to respond, not to understand. While someone is talking, we're already formulating our reply. Planning our counterpoint. Waiting for our turn. Real listening is different. It's quieting your own thoughts. Letting go of your agenda. Becoming genuinely curious about what the other person means — not just what they're saying. It's rare. And people notice when you do it. What would change if you liste

Connection. This week we've explored trust, reliability, transparency, and vulnerability. They all lead here: connection. Trust creates the space for real connection. Not surface-level networking. Not transactional relationships. But genuine human connection — the kind that makes work meaningful and teams powerful. When trust is present, people bring their full selves. They take risks. They support each other. They build something together. Leadership isn't really about strat